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Sleep Issues in Infants and ChildrenRichard Ferber: Solving Your Child's Sleep Problems. Paperback, about $10. by Richard Ferber, MD, copyright 1985, ISBN: 0-671-46027-7, ISBN:0-671-62099-1 Pbk. [sources incl. amazon] Everything from sleeping through the night after the age of three months to night terrors, sleep walking, and even narcolepsy. A wonderful book for a sleep-deprived new parent. Does NOT recommend "just let the child cry herself to sleep." This was the one book that our Pediatrician recommended one day after Karen was born. She said that it was long, but worth it. I read it in the early weeks before there were any problems. Karen hasn't had any sleep problems, but I think that had a lot to do with the fact that I knew what to be aware of and what to avoid. I wholeheartedly recommend this for anyone who is interested in an in-depth look. I think that he's also written some articles which condenses the information to a more reasonable length. One bit of generic advice that I have used is to get the book from the library first. If you like it, then go ahead and buy it. I should really start a topic for GOOD HINTS FROM BAD BOOKS: there are some child-rearing books that I've gotten one or two great ideas from whose overall opinions I violently disapprove of. Another example: I like Ferber myself, but even parents who dislike Ferber should really read the first chapter, explaining normal childhood sleep patterns and development. -- Betsy Hanes Perry Helping Your Child Sleep Through The Night Joanne Cuthbertson & Susie Schevill ISBN 0-385-19250-9 paperback, $10 [sources incl. amazon] Even better than Ferber in discussing the effect of such things as illness and teething on sleeping, and the instructions are even more easily followed, with numbered steps. You still need to read Ferber to learn about how sleep works, but Cuthbertson & Schevill provide a useful amplification and slightly different veiwpoint. I think that all parents need to read both books, and most need a copy of one of them around the house in case of future problems. William Sears: Nighttime Parenting. La Leche League International. [sources incl. amazon] I borrowed _Nighttime Parenting_ from my La Leche League library. There is a lot of talk about Ferber on the net but little mention of this book, which I felt was written more from the perspective of a parent than a doctor. Like any book, he has his own ideas, mostly advocating family beds (he calls it "sharing sleep"), but for those who feel that Ferber is not for them I highly recommend this. The problem that I had with Ferber is that he claims that the main reason for sleep problems in infants is that they are nursed or rocked to sleep, then wake up and can't get back to sleep without being nursed or rocked again. But we clearly have a waking infant who falls asleep on his own beautifully. Anyway, just thought I'd mention that resource as I rarely see it here. Vicki Lansky. Getting your child to sleep (and back again). [sources incl. amazon] Useless--you'll do far better with a single short question on misc.kids. Helpful advice such as "try rocking the baby" :-) Marc Weissbluth: Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child [sources incl. amazon] I read this book, and found that what Weissbluth recommends is letting a child "cry it out"--for three or four hours at a time, if need be--starting at ages as low as two months. This approach may be necessary for some families, but I personally couldn't do it. I found Ferber's book to be vastly kinder and more humane, besides explaining things much more clearly. If you have a problem with the idea of letting a child cry for more than a few minutes, I would strongly advise that you try Ferber's book first, and progress to Weissbluth's only if Ferber's methods do not work for your family. --Paula Burch |